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Hugo
The Dildo
AND OTHER PENETRATING SEXUAL INSIGHTS
By
Mistress Kali Ward
Forward
By
Nancy Ava Miller, M.Ed.
Originally titled “Dildos are Like Toothbrushes,” the following article is a must read for anyone contemplating (or involved in) the activity of sexual anal penetration. Here Mistress Kali Ward—leader of PEP-Buffalo S&M support group—discusses everything from love and care of your dildo to the rules of anal play, how to find “Mistress Right,” plus a description of her dear friend, Hugo—the looming, lifelike cock (lifelike, that is, except for his hulking size!) who rests upon a crankshaft in Mistress Kali’s dungeon.
In addition to founding and facilitating PEP-Buffalo, Kali Ward is the
esteemed recipient of the PEP-National Dedication Award for her generous
devotion to and labors for our cherished B&D/S&M fetish community—in
New York and elsewhere. Kali also
runs PEP’s yearly nationwide convention in Albuquerque each December. Well-educated and a former model, she is an articulate woman
of honesty, integrity, sincerity, intelligence and stunning physical allure.
Kali may be reached at home:
For
names/home phone numbers of other PEP ladies—both
Nancy
Ava Miller, at home any hour:
HUGO—THE
ULTIMATE COCK
My Precious dildo, Hugo, is a nasty, licentious invention of mine. He is
huge, hence his name, and sits mounted on a camera tripod so at my whim I may
raise and lower this flesh colored phallus via the tripod's crankshaft. Up
and down goes Hugo. Up and down and in and out of various slut-holes
longing for penetration, violation, humiliation, rape, and pain.
Yet, because Hugo is so gigantic, he must be used only after prolonged
anal training with several smaller butt plugs, probes, and dildos. Fingers, or
tampons, too, can well prepare an eager orifice for Hugo’s onslaught.
And don’t forget hot enemas—soapy, cramping, cleansing, and so
necessary in the case of Hugo (and with other anal play as well).
Yes, the anal sphincter must be carefully caressed, manipulated and
trained for Hugo’s debut. And
what a joy when the slave is finally ready and craving my friend Hugo—begging
and pleading for him! My passion
and warmth go out to the man who covets big, bad Hugo—to the man who
wishes—by the way of Hugo—to please me, to be possessed by me, anally and
otherwise.
I mentioned enemas.
In my dungeon, all anal play occurs only after the submissive completes
an enema. Why? Firstly, the enema
eliminates odors from a “dirty” slut-hole.
Also, the purging
rids one of anal obstructions and prepares the path for
pleasure and sensuality. The enema,
too, with its tubing, nozzle, and its unique form of penetration can be an
erotic, humiliating experience in its own right.
Submissives
might apply some logic here, too, when it comes to enemas.
For instance, during anal play one receives, perhaps, only 70%
stimulation without the enema. But
when one is clean and emptied, the body friction increases and, thus, so does
stimulation. Why settle for only 70% pleasure when 100% is possible via
prior use of enemas?
Incidentally
once you are clean, I prefer to flog you before mounting you, a further
preparation for anal entry. Then I
can cling to your pink, warm, tender ass while fucking you with Hugo or with
other probes, creating an intimate, sensual connection between dominant and
submissive, between us.
Certain types of anal toys are, I find, more enticing than others and last on my personal list are vibrators. I’ve never seen a cock that shimmers and shakes, so why should a dildo? I prefer the realistic devices with head, shaft, and balls—the more realistic, the better! Watching that plump tip slip in as ass muscles tighten produces a hot erotic rush for me and makes my pussy moist. After inserting the head, I work the shaft in and out with slow, small, deliberate thrusts till my victim is plugged to the hilt.
And
then there are the dildo’s balls! Bless
the balls for they serve a purpose or two.
When fucking with a strap-on, for instance, the bulging balls massage my
wet clit, carrying me to a throbbing full-body orgasm—a quaking explosion in
my crotch and beyond. Also when
hand movements alone control the thrusts, the fake balls—swollen and
thick—prevent the dildo from being completely sucked into the slut-hole,
thereby avoiding a midnight jaunt to the emergency room to retrieve a device
missing in action. Balls, then,
help both the novice and the experienced dominant who might otherwise get
carried away by passion and thus ram too far, too high, too deep.
In the realm
of S&M, dildo play—it appears—is on the upswing. The reason for this increase may correlate to a public
awareness about AIDS and to other sexually transmitted diseases which can’t be
spread by proper dildo care and usage, but which may put one at risk, say,
during the traditional form of sexual intercourse.
In
addition to preventing illness, dildos,—for those
who are
perhaps predisposed to them—feel good in ass or
cunt or mouth. And thus the
pleasure component propels more and more already kinky people to experiment with
phalluses of various shapes and sizes. Due
to the upsurge in dildo interest, therefore, a few rules are in order.
Like your toothbrush, a dildo should be discarded and replaced after six
months use. Yes, they are
expensive, nevertheless throw out the old guy and buy a new toy regularly.
Let’s face it, this is a perfect excuse to “upgrade” anyway—to
acquire a bigger, better, badder cock.
Dildos are like toothbrushes; you
take care of your mouth, don’t you? So why not pamper your other
slut-hole?
Most dildos consist of soft, porous rubber, which may absorb bodily
fluids and oil. After prolonged
use, this can cause infection. So
in the true spirit our S&M credo of “safe, sane, and consensual,” here
are “Mistress Kali’s Rules of the Dildo”:
—Replace
your dildos regularly.
—Use
one for anal activity, another for oral, another for vaginal.
—Use
condoms when possible to promote cleanliness and prolong the life of your
dildos.
—Do
not share anal toys among your “dildo friends.” One toy per person!
—Replace
butt plugs often, since they can’t be covered with condoms.
—Clean
your dildos before and after each use.
How
do you clean a dildo? Use a mild soapy solution;
some people swear by the dishwasher, however—top shelf, of course,
where the water is hot but not too hot.
Remember, some of the cleaning product will seep into the porous rubber
and then may affect the anus as well.
Strong substances like chlorine bleach, therefore, should be avoided.
You do not want to harm the sensitive anal canal or cause soreness
from harsh cleansers.
Also, again: be reasonable
about the size of your toys. The
anal sphincter is a muscle. As
such, like any other muscle, it should be trained and exercised regularly for
any special activity. Remember to
prepare the slut-hole for entry. Forcing
a big cock like Hugo up a virgin ass, for instance, can cause discomfort or harm
and, incidentally, ignores our cherished S
In closing, let me add
that if you encounter a dominant who does not respect these simple rules
regarding safe, sane and consensual anal eroticism: RUN!
Also, find a mistress who requires phone consultations prior to a visit.
You then can discuss all topics important and relevant to both of you and
ascertain if you are “right” for one another.
Beware of the domina who invites: “Come
right over!” Under such a scenario, you don’t know who or what you’re
getting involved with!
Before the visit, the submissive bears responsibility to ensure the best
possible S&M experience—safe, sane, consensual, erotic, sensual,
pleasurable, and hot. Then,
during the in-person rendezvous, control and responsibility shift to Mistress.
Therefore, get to know the lady first.
How? Through our age-old
human mechanism: communication! Is she the one for you?
Are you appropriate for her? Listen
and learn—learn from each other! Then be wise, be safe, and open your heart, your mind, your
soul, and your slut-hole to whatever Mistress
offers!
Please
call Mistress Kali Ward at home:
(702)
341-0585
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